How do I tell my girlfriend I don’t like her belly button piercing?

Well, my girlfriend got this belly button piercing without telling me. I absolutely hate them, but don’t want to be mean to her face. . Any ideas how to tell her? I am not lieing behind her back either.
also she doesnt know i know about it. Its on her facebook.
Kristy, I recommend before you be a douche you actually read the question fully. I don’t want to be mean to her face.

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  1. april english

    aww good thing im not your girlfriend. i just got mine pierced today. lol. but i know its not everyone’s cup of tea but just be honest & tell her. either she’ll consider what youre saying or she’ll be like whatever its my body not yours lol. . .

  2. StrawberryGal

    ya don’t
    it’s her body. . . . she can do what she wants
    if she wants painful needles to stab her stomach so she can put rings on it’s ok
    you should be supportive of her decisions and try to focus on her other features

  3. 3 Guesses

    if she done it without mentioning it to you, apparently she doesn’t care what you think. So there is no need to bring it up. The fact that she didn’t tell you about it speaks volumes about your relationship. I think she may be on her way to another boyfriend.

  4. If she shows you and asks your opinion, be honest (but not mean!). If she doesn’t show you the piercing, there’s no point in mentioning it unless you’re looking for a fight.

  5. fmmerritt

    Well you dont really have a say in it since its her body. . . If she put it on facebook she doesnt care because she knew you could see it.

  6. Why should she have to tell you everything she does? You don’t own her and can’t tell her what to do and what she does with her body. He getting her bellybutton pierced was her choice not yours and she has every right to do what she wants. If you cares about her and respect her than you wouldn’t tell her at all. Suck it up and be a man and don’t say anything. Just because you don’t like something doesn’t give you the right to hurt her feelings at all.

  7. All you guys that are giving this dude a hard time need to relax. No need to jump to conclusions. I’ve had mine pierced for years and my boyfriend told me he didn’t like it. I took it out. He thinks it’s sexier lol. Less in the way when it comes to doing the nasty. Anyway, just tell her you think she’s beautiful with or without (true, right?), but prefer it without. If she still wants to keep it, oh well. Accept it and worry about feeding the homeless or something more important. :)

  8. Don’t say anything~ if you really like her then you’ll be able to deal with a belly button piercing because obviously she likes it :) and maybe she doesn’t want you to know- she’ll mention it if she wants to tell you (=

  9. Skittles Can Split!

    If she asks your opinion on it, then you should be honest, not mean. Choose your words carefully in order to avoid a fight over something so small. I’m pretty sure you have a sweater or a pair of jeans that she absolutely hates on you but you wear them anyway, Lol.

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