She doesn’t realise it but the result is bloody awful. Her family will not tell her because they do not want to hurt her feelings. She is pretty without make-up, anyway. And she has an office job.

Is it fair to her just to let her continue for another month until she has corrective eye surgery? Her husband has hinted but she does not take notice. How would you feel if you were in her position. Would you rather be left alone or informed? She is my sister. Is simply explaining it to her acceptable behaviour or should the explantion be couched some way?